We Made a Grown Man Cry

Lori Borre • August 15, 2024

Happy Tears and Hope for the Future

By "we" I mean me and fifty of the greatest kids I know -- and it wasn't the first time. It's actually almost "common." Here's the back story. 


We held a dance at a local park. To us, it was just a typical, normal, usual dance. We strung some lights, put up a few speakers, and invited the people. Fifty kids and a few parents showed up and the revelry began. They danced and sashayed and laughed and jumped and smiled and clapped and sang and cavorted, and formed kick lines and giggled and talked and carried on. Notice I didn't say anything about standing around in cliques or being on phones. 


During all the merrymaking, somewhere in the background of the parking lot, in the dark, sat two little golf carts with observers from the town council that had given their approval for the event. During the last dance, my job as a caller having been completed, I walked over to the fence and motioned for them to come chat. One man left his golf cart and approached. I casually asked him what he thought of the shindig that evening. He began to reply then suddenly choked up. Through broken words, he described the beauty he had witnessed. As he shook his head in disbelief, the questions poured out. Was this a certain church? Youth group? School? 


No. Just a bunch of good, mostly homeschooled (but not all) kids and parents celebrating life. "It's like it was when I was a kid. I'm an old man, and I didn't think this existed anymore." Thank you for noticing, Sir. You blessed my day and helped me see that what we are doing... matters. 


I'm not crying. You're crying. 

By Lori Borre June 2, 2025
The wedding we attended in North Carolina recently was utterly dreamy. There was joy and laughter and singing and Scripture and dancing... our favorite kind of dancing, and again, here's the part that stood out... I wasn't the caller. As the day progressed, I occasionally found my mind wandering to the upcoming reception. Would there be dancing? What kind? Would I get a quick slow dance with my husband or perhaps even a swing with one of my kids? It never dawned on me there might be OUR kind of dancing. So when the announcement suddenly rang out over the speakers that we should line up for the Virginia Reel, my eyes caught fire. "DO YOU KNOW WHAT THIS MEANS?!" I half-yelled at Ron. It means "I get to DAAAAANNNNCCCEEEE!!! COME ON!!!" Not waiting to be asked properly, I grabbed Ron's hand and half ran, half floated to the top of the set, not even considering that it might not be proper. I was in a delirium. The Virginia Reel, The Boston Tea Party, a few line dances, some swing dances with my kids, and even POSTIE'S JIG!!! WHAT JOY! WHAT BLISS! I was transported to the 6th grade gymnasium where I first loved dance. It has been so long since I was on the receiving end of this merriment that I had almost forgotten. I knew it was fun. I had forgotten HOW fun. I knew it brought joy. I had forgotten HOW MUCH joy. I knew it was bonding. I had forgotten HOW bonding. I knew it was memory-making. I had forgotten HOW memory-making. I knew it was community-forming. I had forgotten HOW community-forming. Now, I remember why people come. As I recall the grateful faces through the years, thanking us for what we do, pleading with their eyes for more opportunities. I remember and am inspired. "Lori, why do you spend your time calling dances and planning events?" I do it because I can't not do it.
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